Ron Hodgson is a dear, old friend of mine. Some time after my husband died at age 41, Ron and I got back in touch after 30 years and began a courtship, agreeing on its purity until marriage. Unfortunately, Ron got scared and decided that he couldn’t “live up to” who he wanted to be for me. He does not feel worthy of love and has very little relationship experience. He is open to God but feels he is “too logical” to really believe in “that stuff.” Ron has disappeared for many months now and is no